Thanks for the birthday wishes, everyone. I appreciate it.
My grandmother turned 89 a couple of months ago. Now
that's what "old" means. My Chinese sister-in-law said it's customary in China to celebrate your 90th birthday when you turn 89. My grandmother didn't see the point in that, but she thought it was funny, so that's what we did. When we celebrated my 39th birthday, I said why don't we go ahead and celebrate my 40th birthday this year.
I usually celebrate my birthday several different ways. The main "party" is a "get together" hosted by my parents. We celebrate my father's birthday and my sister-in-law's birthday at the same time since our birthdays are only a few days apart. We go out to eat and then have cake and ice cream at home a little while later. A couple different groups of friends (one young, one old) also take me out to dinner on different nights. One of my best friends is 76, and my boyfriend is seven years younger than I am, to give you an idea of the range of people with whom I socialize.
My boyfriend and I also do some fun things by ourselves. We wanted to take a trip to Utah to go hiking in the various national parks (Zion National Park is one of my favorites), but we couldn't go this year due to business obligations. Instead, we went to a theme park called Six Flags Over Texas and a couple of movies, and we took him to test-drive a Ferrari (we test-drove Porsches for fun when he was in college). The salesman who helped us seemed more impressed with my 1988 Mitsubishi Starion than he was with the car he knew we weren't going to buy.

So I had a pretty good birthday this year.