Low alcohol-tolerance, eh?Originally posted by Bloodstalker:
<STRONG>Drinking doesn't make that big a difference. I have been about as drunk as a man can get, and still always knew what I was doing at the time. I vividly recall every moment of being on my knees in front of the toilet.</STRONG>
There was a boy in my 6th grade class who could do that. One of my friends "challenged"(not what she meant to do) him by informing him that the bra she was wearing had its clasp in the front instead of in the back. He had no trouble undoing the clasp, but he did get slapped so hard he started crying.Originally posted by nael:
<STRONG>back in middle school, i didn't do the whole bar snapping thing, i did however becoem quite skilled at unhookign them very quickly with one quick one handed motion. i thought it was funny then, little did i know it would come in handy later in life.
He got into a lot of trouble with us girls, all of it having to do with our bras. He stole at least one bra from almost every 6th grade girl at that school. 
Oh, I don't mean that they didn't know what they were doing... just that bra-snapping is apparently more amusing when you're drunk.Originally posted by Bloodstalker:
<STRONG>Drinking doesn't make that big a difference. I have been about as drunk as a man can get, and still always knew what I was doing at the time. I vividly recall every moment of being on my knees in front of the toilet.</STRONG>
I don't think I would enjoy bra-snapping more while drunk. Bra removing, sure; but not bra-snapping.Originally posted by Bloodstalker:
<STRONG>yeah, but everything is more amusing when you are drunk.</STRONG>
Originally posted by nael:
<STRONG>if you're that drunk...that's when you either just leave it on, tear it off, or chew yoru way through the straps. </STRONG>
IMO ANYONE who abuses ANYONE/THING weaker than themselves commits the biggest sin.Posted by SS -
When I hear a man abusing a woman, it angers me far more than any other wrong deed. It's something that has always angered me in such a way. Sure, I get mad when I hear about those other things happening, but not near as mad as when I hear about a man abusing a woman. And I don't just mean physical abuse, either. All kinds of abuse are included in that.
I am sorry to bring this back up - but who's fault is it then? How many times will a battered wife hear 'sorry' and go back to her abuser, how many battered/sexually abused kids are not given the choice? It is not the fault of the abused ....Posted by SS -
Yes, but he also abused my mum(when she was a kid) and grandma. In his case, it wasn't exactly his fault.
Unfortunately some do. Hence my above observation than the abused inevitably return to the abuser...it is not always fear of the abuser that causes the return, it is often the promises that 'it was a mistake - it will not happen again'...or in the case of a child - protecting the carer...Posted by Happy Evil -
You don't
*grr*Originally posted by Yshania:
<STRONG>I am sorry to bring this back up - but who's fault is it then? How many times will a battered wife hear 'sorry' and go back to her abuser, how many battered/sexually abused kids are not given the choice? It is not the fault of the abused ....</STRONG>
You took that out of context!! I explained why it wasn't his fault! READ EVERYTHING I SAID!!!!!! Originally posted by Sailor Saturn:
Yes, but he also abused my mum(when she was a kid) and grandma. In his case, it wasn't exactly his fault. He had diabetes for almost his entire life, but didn't know it until sometime last decade. This caused him to be somewhat emotionally unstable, which resulted in losing his temper and such.
Don't take what I say out of context like that again! I loved my grandpa dearly. He tought me a lot of things and he wasn't at all abusive after he found out he had diabetes and started taking medicine for it. He wasn't extremely abusive before he found out he had diabetes, either. It wasn't his fault. He had no way of knowing he had diabetes. And he immediately did something about it when he found out he had diabetes. You have no right to blame him. Yeah, he did some stupid things in his life; but he was a good man, especially in the last 5-6 years of his life. 
