Gruntboy: Lol, I gave up trying to figure your 'team' out long ago
Anatres: Yes, wisdom is very important
But, I think some people are givers, some are takers... (maybe this is a basic personality thing? It's not wisdom as much as caring for others...)
At a party during college, a guy tried to convince a friend that all she needed to do was 'lay there', fortunately she wasn't drunk enough for that

But, that may have influenced my opinion of certain men. If all a woman does is 'lay there', and the man 'gets his'...well it just doesn't seem as if he's doing anything for her benifit...
Thus, I've always been extra careful about what men I will even go on a first date with...
Have you noticed this thought process in men around you? I know are MANY kind, caring, giving men...but I am disturbed by some who think that as long as they're getting what they need...the woman automatically is...