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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 4:57 pm
by C Elegans
Originally posted by Dottie:
<STRONG>i wish i could share that optimism... sure it is very fine for a while but then in the end some simple rules of life always seems to interfer with your happiness, like the need to buy food for example

</STRONG>
I know exactly what you mean - I try to avoid buying food for as long as possible, and have lunch and dinner out instead, with people I like to socialise with. But sometimes we all have to give in to boring things...I usually try to boring stuff when I'm very tired, too tired to do anything meaningful. Then it doesn't feel like such a waste of time

(I learned this trick as a student)
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 4:57 pm
by Weasel
Originally posted by Minerva:
<STRONG>...spamming.

</STRONG>
If only I was still a spammer I might could help
Originally posted by Silur:
<STRONG>Know what you mean
@Weasel: Know what you mean too, although not really antisocial, rather sociophobic
</STRONG>
Large crowds and speaking....avoid at all cost.
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 4:59 pm
by Dottie
Originally posted by C Elegans:
<STRONG>I usually try to boring stuff when I'm very tired, too tired to do anything meaningful. Then it doesn't feel like such a waste of time

(I learned this trick as a student)</STRONG>
maybe i should try that sometime... wich reminds me i hav to go to work now

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:03 pm
by Vinin
Such as THE JAKER, I'm a horrible dancer, i couldnt even slow dance for my life. I am learning to breakdance though, thats gonna be interesting...
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:15 pm
by Georgi
Originally posted by C Elegans:
<STRONG>I usually try to boring stuff when I'm very tired, too tired to do anything meaningful. Then it doesn't feel like such a waste of time

(I learned this trick as a student)</STRONG>
See, this doesn't work for me... you try reading a dull history textbook when you're tired and see how long you can keep your eyes open for!!

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:16 pm
by Silur
Originally posted by Weasel:
<STRONG>Large crowds and speaking....avoid at all cost.</STRONG>
Agreed. Well, I can handle speaking to large crowds as long as I'm reasonably secure about the topic (and I get to be on a podium

). Speaking to specific persons... well, that's a different story.
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:16 pm
by Weasel
Originally posted by Vinin:
<STRONG>Such as THE JAKER, I'm a horrible dancer, i couldnt even slow dance for my life. I am learning to breakdance though, thats gonna be interesting...</STRONG>
The secret to dancing is...try to time the yells from your partner with the beat of the music.

It works for me.
Another benefit of this....she/he will have sore feet and cannot say they rather walk home.
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:17 pm
by Georgi
Originally posted by Vinin:
<STRONG>i couldnt even slow dance for my life. </STRONG>
How can you not slowdance? All you have to do it shuffle around on the spot!

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:19 pm
by Georgi
Originally posted by Silur:
<STRONG>Well, I can handle speaking to large crowds as long as I'm reasonably secure about the topic</STRONG>
Oh, I hate public speaking

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:20 pm
by Vinin
Exactly
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:22 pm
by Georgi
Originally posted by Weasel:
<STRONG>Another benefit of this....she/he will have sore feet and cannot say they rather walk home.</STRONG>
Doesn't that mean you have to pay for a taxi?

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:22 pm
by Weasel
Originally posted by Silur:
<STRONG>Agreed. Well, I can handle speaking to large crowds as long as I'm reasonably secure about the topic (and I get to be on a podium

). Speaking to specific persons... well, that's a different story.</STRONG>
For me...I will go in to Weasel mode if I have to speak to a large crowd.
(Weasel mode= Clown)
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:24 pm
by Silur
Originally posted by Georgi:
<STRONG>Oh, I hate public speaking

</STRONG>
It isn't half bad... compared to private conversations with unknown to not wellknown persons of either gender. Now that's horrible! I usually run and hide behind my wife

.
Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:26 pm
by Weasel
Originally posted by Georgi:
<STRONG>Doesn't that mean you have to pay for a taxi?

</STRONG>
Only 50% This is a new world.

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:27 pm
by C Elegans
Originally posted by Weasel:
<STRONG>The secret to dancing is...try to time the yells from your partner with the beat of the music.

It works for me.</STRONG>
LOL

This reminds me of when I took salsa classes with a friend...he had so bad sense for rythm so he didn't even notice when they changed song

Either I or the teacher had to count for him

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:31 pm
by Silur
Originally posted by Weasel:
<STRONG>For me...I will go in to Weasel mode if I have to speak to a large crowd.
(Weasel mode= Clown)</STRONG>
Probably more fun for the audience than me
I go into "formalistic perfectionism and officious bureaucrat"-mode. Well, not really, but it usually gets technical, correct and to the point, dull but at least not a remedy for insomnia ... ... ... "any questions?" and me bolting off stage to avoid any unnescessary interraction

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:33 pm
by C Elegans
Originally posted by Georgi:
<STRONG>See, this doesn't work for me... you try reading a dull history textbook when you're tired and see how long you can keep your eyes open for!!

</STRONG>
I know, that's why I always did it sitting upright, with all lights on and really loud music playing. The more tired I got, the more I turned up the volume...
Wonder why my ex-husband always complained he got stressed by me

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:46 pm
by Weasel
Originally posted by Silur:
<STRONG>Probably more fun for the audience than me
I go into "formalistic perfectionism and officious bureaucrat"-mode. Well, not really, but it usually gets technical, correct and to the point, dull but at least not a remedy for insomnia ... ... ... "any questions?" and me bolting off stage to avoid any unnescessary interraction

</STRONG>
I tried the 'stare straight ahead with a blank look' appoarch once. All this got me was a trip to the office to explain drugs were bad.

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:52 pm
by Georgi
Originally posted by C Elegans:
<STRONG>I know, that's why I always did it sitting upright, with all lights on and really loud music playing. The more tired I got, the more I turned up the volume...
Wonder why my ex-husband always complained he got stressed by me

</STRONG>
Yeah, I'd quite like to stay on speaking terms with my housemates
@Weasel and Silur LOL

Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2001 5:55 pm
by Silur
Originally posted by Weasel:
<STRONG>I tried the 'stare straight ahead with a blank look' appoarch once. All this got me was a trip to the office to explain drugs were bad.

</STRONG>
ROFLMAO!
Since this never happened to me back in the bad old days when I held presentations, I guess my management was more liberal

These days I just rot away at meetings, and there you can usually blame the blank stare on the lousy ventilation
