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Well, as Zelgadis suggested, that I should tell her right away, I cant……..
She’s going on a holiday with her bf next week, and the least I can do is not bother her (them) with my problem yet. How much I want to tell her, I just cant yet......
And Thug, I got her number, and email, I already send her a sms and I got an email back, but staying in contact with her this and next month, is going to be very difficult. She’s going away for a month (bf, own friends and family) soon. However, I got a reply that she will probably give her own party, to which I’m invited, so I guess I will see her then......
The email however, wasn’t that “hopeful” this time she spoke to me as a friend, but I guess email is way to unpersonal for the same interaction we had at the graduation-party.
@Yshania, I haven’t heard any real clear signs that she is unhappy with her current relation. Of course she tells me things which aren’t great about the relation with her bf, but those are not things which can brake up there relationship...... But , she said that she didn’t know if their relationship would last when they are so far removed from eachother......
Time will tell I guess.....
@Tybaltus and Than, thanks for your great replies......If I tell her my feelings I will take the “route” which u two suggested to me. And like Tybaltus, I am not someone who says out of nothing that I really like someone, I probably have to speak with her first for some time and hope I got the guts to tell her, if not, well then Thans way is great. And Than, your reply is really great, it helps. You have my respect.......
I want to thank you all for listening and giving advice. Expressing how I feel, lightens the pain. It really does. It actually took me quite some time to write my original post and replies.......since expressing myself in a foreign language isn’t that easy for me. However, I am still glad I decided to post here. You are all great, and I mean it..... Thank you. I decided I will take Thans route, which is IMO the savest for our current relationship.....
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Edit: about my name.....Well I was known as ARcheR_S_. I had some topics (fanfiction) here. Before that I browsed the BG 2 forums a lot. I do know this forum for quite some time though, under my former name I signed up in 2001. But somehow I cant reach my account anymore. U may know, that my name is Sytze, so I’m rather called that, then archer.
She’s going on a holiday with her bf next week, and the least I can do is not bother her (them) with my problem yet. How much I want to tell her, I just cant yet......
And Thug, I got her number, and email, I already send her a sms and I got an email back, but staying in contact with her this and next month, is going to be very difficult. She’s going away for a month (bf, own friends and family) soon. However, I got a reply that she will probably give her own party, to which I’m invited, so I guess I will see her then......
The email however, wasn’t that “hopeful” this time she spoke to me as a friend, but I guess email is way to unpersonal for the same interaction we had at the graduation-party.
@Yshania, I haven’t heard any real clear signs that she is unhappy with her current relation. Of course she tells me things which aren’t great about the relation with her bf, but those are not things which can brake up there relationship...... But , she said that she didn’t know if their relationship would last when they are so far removed from eachother......
Time will tell I guess.....
@Tybaltus and Than, thanks for your great replies......If I tell her my feelings I will take the “route” which u two suggested to me. And like Tybaltus, I am not someone who says out of nothing that I really like someone, I probably have to speak with her first for some time and hope I got the guts to tell her, if not, well then Thans way is great. And Than, your reply is really great, it helps. You have my respect.......
I want to thank you all for listening and giving advice. Expressing how I feel, lightens the pain. It really does. It actually took me quite some time to write my original post and replies.......since expressing myself in a foreign language isn’t that easy for me. However, I am still glad I decided to post here. You are all great, and I mean it..... Thank you. I decided I will take Thans route, which is IMO the savest for our current relationship.....
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Edit: about my name.....Well I was known as ARcheR_S_. I had some topics (fanfiction) here. Before that I browsed the BG 2 forums a lot. I do know this forum for quite some time though, under my former name I signed up in 2001. But somehow I cant reach my account anymore. U may know, that my name is Sytze, so I’m rather called that, then archer.
"Sometimes Dreams are wiser than waking"
Welcom back Sytze..*HUG*Originally posted by Sytze
I decided I will take Thans route, which is IMO the savest for our current relationship.....
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Edit: about my name.....Well I was known as ARcheR_S_. I had some topics (fanfiction) here. Before that I browsed the BG 2 forums a lot. I do know this forum for quite some time though, under my former name I signed up in 2001. But somehow I cant reach my account anymore. U may know, that my name is Sytze, so I’m rather called that, then archer.
I am glad to hear yu have decided to follow Than's advice. He did such a wonderful job. There is nothing at all I can add to what he and others have already said. Nothing that is, except for my support. And I want you to know that yu have that as well.
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Originally posted by Sytze
Edit: about my name.....Well I was known as ARcheR_S_. I had some topics (fanfiction) here. Before that I browsed the BG 2 forums a lot. I do know this forum for quite some time though, under my former name I signed up in 2001. But somehow I cant reach my account anymore. U may know, that my name is Sytze, so I’m rather called that, then archer.
Ok, I have edited my previous address
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Guinness, black goes with everything.
Originally posted by Scayde
Welcom back Sytze..*HUG*
I am glad to hear yu have decided to follow Than's advice. He did such a wonderful job. There is nothing at all I can add to what he and others have already said. Nothing that is, except for my support. And I want you to know that yu have that as well.
I thank you for your support Scayde, I appreciate it, I really do......
I spoke with her again, and unfortunatly I wont see her for a full month, because shes travelling and such (vacation), after that, well, we shall see.....
So I have to wait, and that pains me most. However, talking about my problem, and the support and advice I got here, really helps.
@Yshania......hehe, thank you
"Sometimes Dreams are wiser than waking"