The Succeeder Stronghold

TonyMontana1638 · Post by **TonyMontana1638** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:11 pm

I hate to sound too Magrus-esque but my senior year of high school I literally dated two girls at the same time who were best friends. One was loud, flirty and obsessed with guys liking her, the other was shy and cute, very genuine. The former liked attention (and gave it back in droves

) the latter... MAde you work for it a little more. Took the two of them to two different dances much to my chagrin (I always hated high school dances)... We all got along fine. Long story short I've been dating the shy one for a year and a half now

. If you're you, the guy will like you: if he doesn't you shouldn't bother anyways. Just my take, high school drama always seemed stupid to me and I don't mean to sound 'greater than thou' again (I do that alot,and I'm sorry

) but this kind of stuff really isn't that... Important.

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:11 pm

[QUOTE=Bloodstalker]They did. Until they got a nation of sensitive men. Now all you hear is "Where are all the real men anymore?"

[/QUOTE]
At the dragstrip.

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:14 pm

[QUOTE=ch85us2001]Do you want me to write Lennon Hair a note?????????

Dear Mr. Lennon hair,

I know you dont know me, and thats probably lucky for you. Could kitten please have a piece of your lovely, springy, volume filled, awesomely coolred, puppy dog feeling- *realizes it says "Lennon Hair" and not "Brian Hair"*- Uh, nevermind. Kitten doesnt know me.

Chu. [/QUOTE]
Haha... sure chu, why don't you get at that? :laugh:

[QUOTE=Phreddie]Hate to be the jack ass here[/QUOTE]

Whoa, you lost me. :laugh: j/k.

@Tony, it just seems that guys always like my friend. What bugs me most, is that she flirts endlessly with them, and if (or when) then ask her out or something, she'll say no.

Phreddie · Post by **Phreddie** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:15 pm

[QUOTE=ch85us2001]At the dragstrip.

[/QUOTE]
No those are men wanting to be Real Women.

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:17 pm

Dear Lennon-Hair,

Do me a favor and ask Kitten out. She'll explain later. Ill send you an autograph.

*flourish*
Chu.

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:18 pm

[QUOTE=ch85us2001]Dear Lennon-Hair,

Do me a favor and ask Kitten out. She'll explain later. Ill send you an autograph.

*flourish*
Chu. [/QUOTE]
Lennon-Hair:
*opens letter*
*reads*
...
...

"WTF?"

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:19 pm

[QUOTE=Oscuro_Sol]Lennon-Hair:
*opens letter*
*reads*
...
...

"WTF?"[/QUOTE]
Who the *bleep* is Kitten????????

Oh, look, Lina's outside!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

j/k,

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:20 pm

[QUOTE=ch85us2001]Who the *bleep* is Kitten????????

Oh, look, Lina's outside!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

j/k,

[/QUOTE]
Hahaha, exactly.
"What's a chu? Why is he flourishing at me? Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be! Whisper words of wisdom..."

*slap*

TonyMontana1638 · Post by **TonyMontana1638** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:21 pm

[QUOTE=Oscuro_Sol]@Tony, it just seems that guys always like my friend. What bugs me most, is that she flirts endlessly with them, and if (or when) then ask her out or something, she'll say no.

[/QUOTE]

Heh, you just described The Person Formerly Known as (my girlfriend's name here) Best Friend: that's how I always refer to her, even when she's around (oooh it's so great and awkward when she is

) to an "s

Spoiler

lut

". In fact I think the only reason you could have called us "dating" was because the presence of her best friend there too brought alot of (unnecessary) attention on us, which she liked. There's something many girls, particularly in high school where the cutthroat social hierarchy is at it's finest, just enjoy about taunting guys. You know this of course

, but it's just... Empowering to them I suppose. Guys always like a flirt but that doesn't mean they want to date the flirt either, keep that in mind. I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but don't you dare lower yourself.

You're better than that.

I hate the Beatles.

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:22 pm

[QUOTE=Oscuro_Sol]Hahaha, exactly.
"What's a chu? Why is he flourishing at me? Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be! Whisper words of wisdom..."[/QUOTE]
Correction: Why is it flourishing at me????????????

Im getting racecar ads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:23 pm

[QUOTE=TonyMontana1638]Heh, you just described The Person Formerly Known as (my girlfriend's name here) Best Friend: that's how I always refer to her, even when she's around (oooh it's so great and awkward when she is

) to an "s

Spoiler

lut

". In fact I think the only reason you could have called us "dating" was because the presence of her best friend there too brought alot of (unnecessary) attention on us, which she liked. There's something many girls, particularly in high school where the cutthroat social hierarchy is at it's finest, just enjoy about taunting guys. You know this of course

, but it's just... Empowering to them I suppose. Guys always like a flirt but that doesn't mean they want to date the flirt either, keep that in mind. I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but don't you dare lower yourself.

You're better than that.

I hate the Beatles.[/QUOTE]
I would never do that, Tony. I think it's horrible that she flirts with guys then rejects them. And then, after, when she's friends with the "rejectee," she's always hugging them and giving them highfives and flirting with them. Temptress.

I know.

Bloodstalker · Post by **Bloodstalker** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:23 pm

[QUOTE=Oscuro_Sol]

@Tony, it just seems that guys always like my friend. What bugs me most, is that she flirts endlessly with them, and if (or when) then ask her out or something, she'll say no.

[/QUOTE]

just a nonsolicitated thought, but could it be that the reason all the guys like your friend is the fact that she flirts endlessly with them? I only ask because you have stated somewhere I think you might be shy. It could be that they interpret shyness as a lack of interest or confidence.

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:24 pm

[QUOTE=TonyMontana1638]
I hate the Beatles.[/QUOTE]
*twitches*

:speech:

*readies Claw of Sol*

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:24 pm

[QUOTE=Bloodstalker]just a nonsolicitated thought, but could it be that the reason all the guys like your friend is the fact that she flirts endlessly with them? I only ask because you have stated somewhere I think you might be shy. It could be that they interpret shyness as a lack of interest or confidence.[/QUOTE]

Well of course I flirt. :laugh: Just not 24/7 like she does.

[QUOTE=chu]*readies Claw of Sol*[/QUOTE]
LOL, I don't care. I like the Beatles and that's all I know.

ch85us2001 · Post by **ch85us2001** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:26 pm

Perhaps you shouldn't take my advice????????????

It's worked wonders for Ravagey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, sometimes it's best to do what you want to do.

Easier said than done.

Bloodstalker · Post by **Bloodstalker** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:27 pm

[QUOTE=Oscuro_Sol]

Well of course I flirt. :laugh: Just not 24/7 like she does.

LOL, I don't care. I like the Beatles and that's all I know.[/QUOTE]

hmmm, then might I suggest spreading rumors that your friend has some vile and untreatable STD. You know, something involving boils.

Athena · Post by **Athena** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:27 pm

Good luck OS.

love, peace n' happiness.

Bloodstalker · Post by **Bloodstalker** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:28 pm

[QUOTE=Athena]Good luck OS.

love, peace n' happiness.[/QUOTE]

treehugger

Oscuro_Sol · Post by **Oscuro_Sol** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:29 pm

[QUOTE=ch85us2001]Seriously, sometimes it's best to do what you want to do.

Easier said than done.

[/QUOTE]
For sure. I don't even know what I want! I'm so selfcentered.

[QUOTE=BS]hmmm, then might I suggest spreading rumors that your friend has some vile and untreatable STD. You know, something involving boils.[/QUOTE]
Haha... I'll leave that to chu and his superb writing skills.

[QUOTE=Athena]Good luck OS.

love, peace n' happiness.[/QUOTE]
Thanks Athena. Words of wisdom those are.

TonyMontana1638 · Post by **TonyMontana1638** » Thu Mar 02, 2006 9:30 pm

[QUOTE=Bloodstalker]just a nonsolicitated thought, but could it be that the reason all the guys like your friend is the fact that she flirts endlessly with them? I only ask because you have stated somewhere I think you might be shy. It could be that they interpret shyness as a lack of interest or confidence.[/QUOTE]

*nods* That's a common problem but in many cases it's true too. I enjoy the shy, quiet types myself because I'm a bit reserved myself (not here though

) and they often force you to get to intimately know them just by nature alone. Trying to cut down those masks that hide insecurities and get to truly know the person is quite rewarding. This is all so cliche'd (I had to take over with Rav leaving and all

)...

Well OS I'd be more than happy to loan you my crew to teach the ho a lesson...

*Readies pimp-slappin hand*

Slade! Ready the Chocolate Thunder-mobile!