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why are gays gay?
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 12:57 pm
by graywolf
what makes them gay? why do think so?
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 1:00 pm
by Siberys
Meh, some think it's genetic, some think it's choice, I on the other hand could care less, just let'em be is all I can say.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 1:00 pm
by Magrus
graywolf wrote:what makes them gay? why do think so?
I have to ask, why do you ask this?

Is there a personal reason behind it? Religious conflict, enlightenment being sought? What?

Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 1:43 pm
by dragon wench
Magrus wrote:I have to ask, why do you ask this?

Is there a personal reason behind it? Religious conflict, enlightenment being sought? What?
My question as well.
You might find you are more likely to stimulate discussion if you provide some background and reason behind your question. Assuming, of course, you don't begin denigrating gays, in which case this thread will most likely end up being closed.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 1:47 pm
by Magrus
dragon wench wrote:My question as well.
You might find you are more likely to stimulate discussion if you provide some background and reason behind your question. Assuming, of course, you don't begin denigrating gays, in which case this thread will most likely end up being closed.
*nods* Asking that kind of question, and nothing else is asking to start some biased flamewar in most places. I will refuse to take part in the discussion unless it is to help someone out. As well, most people have very firm beliefs on the issue one way or the other, and it is not worth discussing unless someone truly wants to learn about it for a specific reason.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 2:32 pm
by C Elegans
Siberys wrote:Meh, some think it's genetic, some think it's choice, I on the other hand could care less, just let'em be is all I can say.
There is actually a third alternative, and that is that sexual orientation is
biological but not genetic, and this is the current scientific hypothesis based on findings in scientific studies. Not genes but hormonal levels prenatally seems to influence sexual orientation.
The idea that sexual orientation is a choice, has no scientific or factual support at all, although it is a popular belief among some religious groups and queer-theory feminists.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 3:04 pm
by Dowaco
I agree that Biological is the only logical reason.
Genetic does not work since a "Gay" gene would almost never be passed on to the next generation. And a 10% mutation at the same site is not plausible.
Choice is ridiculous. Do people choose to be heterosexual or asexual? No.
It has to be fluctuations in hormonal levels probably prenatally as posed by C. Elegans.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 5:38 pm
by Maharlika
A brief explanation please.
I will echo the same sentiments of some of those who already posted.
@graywolf: We would appreciate if you give us a brief background of the context of your question. Such a question is a delicate one, and if handled improperly, can cause undesirable exchange of ideas.
And yes, welcome to SYM.
-- Maharlika (SYM moderator) --
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:10 pm
by graywolf
well, look i did not ask caz i am gay, its caz im kinda annoyed that there is no straight pride day but there is a gay pride day. thats all.does anyone find that a little offending to straits?
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:15 pm
by dragon wench
Er.... straight people do not have a history of being discriminated against because of their sexual orientation. They have never needed to refer to their intimate relationships as
"The love that dareth not speak its name."
And that's just for starters.
However, I'll stop there. I have the feeling you are simply trolling, and do not wish to actually engage in any kind of discussion.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:31 pm
by Magrus
graywolf wrote:well, look i did not ask caz i am gay, its caz im kinda annoyed that there is no straight pride day but there is a gay pride day. thats all.does anyone find that a little offending to straits?
Dude, I think those are called strip clubs. Go parade there and see what happens. Maybe you'll enjoy it?

Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:33 pm
by Siberys
graywolf wrote:well, look i did not ask caz i am gay, its caz im kinda annoyed that there is no straight pride day but there is a gay pride day. thats all.does anyone find that a little offending to straits?
dude, Mardi Gras.
Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:39 pm
by Oscuro_Sol
People, it's just another homophobe.

Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 7:44 pm
by Magrus
Oscuro_Sol wrote:People, it's just another homophobe.
*pounces* I lured you back! Muahaha! :devil:
I know, a slow one too. That does not mean I should limit my fun though.

Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 10:30 pm
by Xandax
I don't see any point in this thread, as I see nothing construtive in the question. "Why are gays gay" is not the initial post of a debate at all, but looks much more like simply trying to stir up some emotional arguing, thus I'm closing it down.
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