I seem to be at a similar place, so I'll tryt to help ...
[QUOTE=k1k355]1.if ne1 remembers in Beregost's Jovial Juggler Inn is palandin Bjornin who wants me to kill al ogres south-southwest of town.where is that?i think i passed all near s-sw wilderness maps....[/QUOTE]
If you go west to 'High Hedge', then south, then south again, you will be in an area with a lake in the middle. The Ogres are at the north of that area - it is the same place you'll meet someone famous.
2. where is Cloakwood? dwarf Gurke wants his cloak that has been stolen from him.i'm supposed to go there...[/QUOTE]Not sure - I have an idea where it is likely to be, but nothing on the map.
[QUOTE=k1k355]3.could i in any way separate Jaheira & Khalid except killing one of them?[/QUOTE]I'm struggling with this as well, as I've recently finished BG2 SoA and ToB, in which Jaheira was my romance - so I want to keep her around and alive, and it only seems right to keep Khalid alive so he can die in BG2, but that (letting Khalid die) seems the only way to separate them. Similar with Minsc - you want one you get both.
I might just drop them both off (J & K) for a while to let me grab other NPC's and pick them up later. I have heard that they stick around if you kick them out.