First of all, basing on your statements and explanations this thread partially seems to be about "not knowing the rules". You claim the rules stink because you don't understand how those works and why those works that way. No offense meant but that's how it is. Secondly, if you don't like the system don't play the game. D&D is one of the most liked because it's complexity and the range of choice it offers to players but it's simply not for everybody. There are dozens, hundreds, perhaps even thousands of games that works the way you want, like assumes what the player wants to do, so stick with those games instead. We won't hate you for doing that but nobody is going to like you if you come here, throw in facts that does not, in my opinion, follow any logic and refuse to listen to friendly, detailed explanations and answers, and instead you throw in more empty claims and statements, backed with minor name-calling. So, if you don't like the game then don't play it. It is actually that simple.