There's a mirror for patch 2 at co8:
http://www.co8.org/files/patch/TOEE_USA_ANY-PATCH2.EXE
Also, this game should not be played unpatched (patch 2 alone will help with a lot of corruption issues).
I also recommend temple.zip:
Temple.zip
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http://www.jadri.com/temple.zip
-or-
http://www.co8.org/files/patch/temple.zip
1. Unzip the patch. (Double click the folder you downloaded and choose the extract all files option in the corner of the window (XP))
2. Find the file in you GAME'S directory called "temple.dll" and remove it. (Put it somewhere you can find it again.)
3. Take the "temple.dll" file from the unzipped patch folder and put it where the original file was.
4. Inside the patch folder should be a folder called "data". Inside that folder should be three new folders. Take all of them and put them into the game's "data" folder.
Lastly, if you or anyone finds themself in this position, you may have to start over, but it shouldn't take too long. If you use the console to set your PCs back to where they were XP-wise, you can go through all the hoops quickly and get back to where you were with just a bit more XP than you had. See the sticky thread on this forum on console commands for more info.