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12-10-2001, 12:27 PM
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nice, bad, I don't know. I just tend to be me. I am who I am, and never gave a thought to what other people thought about me. I think that the nice guys tend to become more of a friend in a lot of instances. Once you get to know someone as a friend, it seems that there is a reluctance to get more involved on a more personal basis. Fear of losing a friend if things go bad and all that. Anyway, just my 2 cents worth.
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<STRONG>I think that the nice guys tend to become more of a friend in a lot of instances. Once you get to know someone as a friend, it seems that there is a reluctance to get more involved on a more personal basis. Fear of losing a friend if things go bad and all that. Anyway, just my 2 cents worth.</STRONG>
| I agree with you there.
I, personally, try to become friends with someone if I like them before I'll try initiating anything more than that because I'd rather end up with them being 'just a friend' than not even an acquaintance(sp?).
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Yeah, I know what you mean. Isn't it odd though that people get into a realtionship and grow to become each oithers friend as well and their partner, and this is what most people seem to want, but they resist doing it the other way around? personally, I have dated people I was friends with first, and still remain friends with afterwards. Not all of them mind you, but the majority. And when I haven't remained friends, it was over something like lying to me and sneaking around behind my back, which I would have terminated trhe friendship anyway without dating them.
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The trick to finding a partner is to stop looking for one. Focus on doing the things that you like doing, and you'll soon meet like-minded people. Even then, focus on being friends with them first. Game-playing is for soap operas. Be open, honest, and not desperate. Be comfortable with being alone and happy to be with others. Be. Just be. OMG! I accidentally COMMunicated! What was I thinking!  
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This is what i mean, people think of "Bad" guys as abusive and "God" guys as the kind that dont even dare to say hi to a woman.
Im sure there are other altenativs then those, right?
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IMHO, any women that goes for a bad guy or mean person isn't worth your time.
Then again, different people have a different view on what "bad" is... 
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<STRONG>This is what i mean, people think of "Bad" guys as abusive and "God" guys as the kind that dont even dare to say hi to a woman.
Im sure there are other altenativs then those, right? </STRONG>
| I think these are just simplified extremes....yes, there are nice guys that aren't totally shy and quiet, and their are bad guys that aren't throwing themselves at every physically attractive girl.
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.I thought you meant the overall nice guy type of person 
