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01-01-2006, 11:57 PM
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It's strange, Im happier now, Im not threating people as much, and Im much calmer. Its this warm and fuzzy feelin that Im gettin, I think of my girlfriend and I am happy. What is it called?! Im kinda scared here. What is this feeling?! 
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01-02-2006, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Demortis It's strange, Im happier now, Im not threating people as much, and Im much calmer. Its this warm and fuzzy feelin that Im gettin, I think of my girlfriend and I am happy. What is it called?! Im kinda scared here. What is this feeling?! | Contentment I'm assuming. I wouldn't go so far as to say love, jumping on that one at the wrong time can kill a relationship fairly fast. I wish you luck with that though. It is odd getting used to be happy when it is a very rare emotion for you. I know that all too well. 
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01-02-2006, 12:08 AM
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Thanks Mag, its kinda weird, I feel complete with her, everyone that knows me says Im happier, and its freakin them out. Im glad I found her when I did, I would more then likely be an angrier person had I not.
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01-02-2006, 01:03 AM
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Thats great demo, but ..uh....
Quick send her down here, now that your happy your need is some what less than that of the rest of us, my family and local aquantances need some thing to e happy about!
NIce you found someone, even if shes not your some one, just enjoy your time with her, but dont waste time with, (not seven years then break up in big fight), end being friends, if she is your someone, well, i wont wish you good luck, cuz you apparently dont need anymore, so:
Have fun.
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01-02-2006, 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Phreddie Thats great demo, but ..uh....
Quick send her down here, now that your happy your need is some what less than that of the rest of us, my family and local aquantances need some thing to e happy about! | Um, shes my miricale worker! Quote: |
Originally Posted by Phreddie Nice you found someone, even if shes not your some one, just enjoy your time with her, but dont waste time with, (not seven years then break up in big fight), end being friends, if she is your someone, well, i wont wish you good luck, cuz you apparently dont need anymore, so:
Have fun. | Well, Im hopin this lasts, because I just feel so strong about it, I'll fight tooth and claw before I give her up.
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01-02-2006, 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Demortis It's strange, Im happier now, Im not threating people as much, and Im much calmer. Its this warm and fuzzy feelin that Im gettin, I think of my girlfriend and I am happy. What is it called?! Im kinda scared here. What is this feeling?! | Drunk...? 
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01-02-2006, 04:38 AM
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I don't think anything I say will matter to you, but a lot of other people have been through similar experiences, and you might learn something if you listened to them. The thing is, you won't have any idea what they're talking about until you reach the same conclusions on your own. Such is life.
You're probably in love. It's a wonderful feeling, and you should enjoy it while it lasts. But it might wear off someday. If that happens, don't be surprised if you become bored, angry, or impatient with the one you love. You've probably seen a lot of unhappy couples, but they were once in love just like you. My, how things change. But that's not the worst thing that could happen. The relationship might come to an end while you're still in love with her, and then you'll have to deal with heartbreak and all of the other associated feelings like anger, jealousy, and helplessness. So the best thing you can do right now is to accept how you feel and hope it makes you a better person. That will make it easier for you to deal with anything life throws your way.
For right now, make the most of it, and above all, respect the woman you love. If she's so important to you, she deserves no less. You don't have to put her ahead of yourself, but treat her well and be considerate of her feelings and desires. Talk to her and try to understand her point of view. If you see her as a real person who has an identity of her own, you'll feel more comfortable at those unavoidable times when you can't understand her and she seems like an alien.
You might think you know her, but there will always be more to learn about her. You need to understand your own feelings and you should not neglect them, but you need to understand her feelings as well.
Good luck!
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01-02-2006, 05:03 AM
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Does it matter what it is, as long as you like it and you keep having it?
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@ Demo, I'll second everything VonDondu took the time to write out. Good advice there. 
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01-02-2006, 05:57 PM
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Thanks VonDondu. Im hoping that I wont have to lose her. I never thought I would feel this way. Thanks guys for helpin me understand this somewhat, even if some think I'm drunk.*cough* Brynn *cough*  Thanks again guys.
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01-04-2006, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Rookierookie Does it matter what it is, as long as you like it and you keep having it? | No, but that's a big assumption to make. The thing about Love is that you don't always keep having it. Even if you do love someone for a long time (I can personally say years.... anyone else longer?) the love changes over time. That's kind of part of the whole deal...
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It does change over time. For example, my ex Lori, I love her dearly, and it has changed a few times since I met her. From lovers, to friends, to, well...I'm unsure of where it's going now. If she hadn't moved to Seattle, things may be beyond friends between us. 
Sometimes you fall in love, and grow out of it. Occasionally it can be made so you can stay close to the person you have grown apart from. Other times, well, it's best to see to it you don't see each other again. 
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01-04-2006, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Rookierookie Does it matter what it is, as long as you like it and you keep having it? | If your actions and choices are always the same no matter how you feel or no matter how you are involved with other people, then I guess it doesn't matter how you feel. But if a person realizes that he is in love and realizes that he can make a difference in his own relationships with other people, then his actions and choices have enormous consequences. You can always just "let things happen" if you want to, but you can also take control and make a difference if you want to.
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01-05-2006, 10:32 PM
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| | | I say hold onto it... cherish it, And when she leaves cry your heart out, and do it all over again.
Unless of course, your looking for marriage, in which case... Well I'm 18 for christ's sake, what the hell do I know?
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