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11-19-2004, 01:06 PM
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Well im back (i didn't go anywhere but my computers been broken) and im really really really unhappy (must not curse.........) i need to either be punced in the face or told im rite so i came here.
Anyway last sunday was my best friend for 6 years birthday he was 16 and on that wednesday he came into school saying he wasn't having a party (which he had been talking about for the past 2 days) so i called another friend that night and she said that he was having a party and tha same thing happened tha next 2 days and on saturday morning,he was supposedly having the party that night and well i wouldn't have been able to go but we were best friends for 6 years and well he said his party wasn't on so.........
anyway my other friend went to it and told me about it after i was great full for that for obvious reasons and well i called him on sunday and asked chris (the friend that had a party behind my back) how the hh was last night (hh= youth club) and of course he hadn't been so he said he hadn't and then i wen't on to say that i was annoyed that i wasn't invited and that i was annoyed with him he then continued to tell me to f**k off and stop being so self centerd and that he only knew about it 2 hours before, and i really think thats long eneough to make a 5 minute call to invite me anyway what really annoyed me was that he called me self centered because over the 6 years him and i had been friends i had probably given him over £150 without question and that he has stayed over at my house when he needed and wanted to my mum and my favorite aunt treated him almost like a son feeding him and also giving him money (but that was for helping around my house with me) and well he ups and does this and well i need to know if im rite that hes not worth it cause hes a d**k or am i wrong, any help that can be given is very much appreciated thanks.
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11-19-2004, 01:13 PM
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| | | Hey, Mcool, would you mind checking your PM? I think you might want to read that. |
11-19-2004, 01:21 PM
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| | I read tha pm and to tell the truth i dont really know how to phrase it better  sigh hmm....... im not really sure how.
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11-19-2004, 01:23 PM
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| | | I think you're certainly right in being upset, but I don't think that it's necessarily enough to end a friendship.. No one here can decide that for you.. You have to really look into your soul.. remember: people get caught up in the moment and forget things or just let things go.. Sometimes it's not dworth ruining a friendship for a silly party.. Hope things work out for you.
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11-19-2004, 01:26 PM
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| | | I get what your saying but there is one main point i missed, he is one stubborn son of a if you understand what i mean he really is a very un nice person at time especily when he dosen't like you.
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11-19-2004, 01:32 PM
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| | | Well, you should have a serious talk with him - not on the phone, but face to face. If he doesn't apologise or at least explain, then I think you should say "farewell and goodbye, hope not to see you again". It wouldn't be easy though, 6 years is quite long time...
I hope it ends happily, good luck...
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11-19-2004, 01:41 PM
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| | | Well, could you try putting things in more structured sentences? |
11-19-2004, 01:49 PM
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| | Im angry, tired and confused structured sentences are a bit out of my reach.
Anyway thats the thing he is really stubborn and if i go up to him face to face hes acts really childish and just tells me to f off and walks away
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11-19-2004, 01:50 PM
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| | | It's a hard problem, understable it is [grr, that Yoda thread].
Well, hope he will think about it and talk with you.
If not, well, you aren't going to beg him, are you??
Just give him a chance to make things right - if he doesn't take it - stop bothering, that means he doesn't deserve to be your friend.
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11-19-2004, 02:04 PM
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| | | As Galuf pointed out, could you make some better sentences please. You to Nar, some capitals and points would make a big difference.
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11-19-2004, 02:10 PM
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| | | You're right, sorry, I'll correct it.
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11-19-2004, 02:59 PM
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| | | Tough problem... I was in a slightly similar situation some time back. One of my best friends whom I had known for at least 6 years started to become increasingly hurtful in various ways.
After much thought, I ended up just quietly withdrawing from the friendship. I did not initiate contact, and when she sent me emails and the like, I kept my replies brief and terse. Eventually, I received a very tentative note from her asking if I had very busy...
We are now in sporadic contact, and I keep things fairly superficial.
While I would have preferred a more direct approach she, like your friend, is quite immature, so a confrontation would not have been very constructive.
I would suggest retreating from the friendship for a time. Perhaps your friend will notice your absence and actually begin to value you. If he does not realise you are ignoring him... then the friendship is likely not worth pursuing.. As the old cliche goes.. With friends like that, who needs enemies?
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11-19-2004, 03:34 PM
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| | Had to read twice to get it  
Obvioulsy, he could've invited you if he had wanted to, so there's no excuse for that. I guess it's him who needs to be punched, not you  But I don't know him, so I don't really have the right to say that. What do you think could be his reason?
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11-19-2004, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by arno_v As Galuf pointed out, could you make some better sentences please. You to Nar, some capitals and points would make a big difference. | I guess he was really upset...
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11-19-2004, 04:41 PM
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| | | I understand, but it's so damn hard to read without any interpunction. Or as you say "I had to read it twice"
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