Actually, there was an FTP download link
here for the first patch, just after it was released. They removed the file after it became clear there were some problems, relating to Direct2Drive I believe. Now it links to the Bioware page.
Although the patch has been patched by now, the page still seems to link to that Bioware page. I think your best bet is to bookmark it and see if they update it in the next few days. The next patch is due soon, so maybe they're waiting for it.