If I refuse to sleep with her does that means that the relationship with her [Aerie]is over? because I refused to sleep with her by mistake [pressed on the wrong dialog it was something like go to hell u needy]then she said that she wont touch person like me again.so will I ever hear her whining again? or the romance is over? [boo-hoo!]
At a certain point, she tells you that she would rather wait for the right time. I don't know if that was your case...
Agree with her, and she'll be happy and the romance will be at an end... until Throne of Bhaal comes out. The romances will continue in there.