I think both Kivan and Xan are unromantic-content heavy, so they should suit you nicely. Some npc's lack an option for those uninterested in romances, and that's certainly a pity. I myself am completely and hopelessly in love with Kivan (

), and I find it very hard to refuse his company as I start a new game, especially since he starts the conversation himself. This is also why I can't say a thing about Deheriana, since I never resurrect her
