Hello, doing BGII again and seem to have a romance problem with Jaheira. The first through time I choose Aerie and had no problem

. But this time with Jaheira things seemed to be going well with here talking all the time and opening up but now she is not talking anymore. I don't think I did anything wrong (no sleeping around

, took her side over Aerie). Is there a trigger I missed. I did the below (spoiler below)
I got her the locket which she liked and chose the romantic line that seemed to choke her up, did the curse quest and cured her, when she was kidnapped I offered myself instead. Now I'm doing Bohid's maze and still nothing?
Any ideas?
Thanks in adv
Pete.