[sparky_kat]

Oskatat, thanks for your note.... i have talked to a docter about him, found out my son had a double ear infection, the doctor said that depending on when the infection started, it could be related to that (my son is like me, pain doesnt bother and doesnt show pain/hurt until it is really hurting... he had sliced his pinky toe open and it didnt bother him that much at all) and that everything that has happened this year, with the getting settled into new place, dealing with the ex's mom rampant behavior, my dad passing, and so forth, could be catching up as he showed no behavior changes that you would typically see during very stessful times and situations.

the thing with my ex's mom, untill i have my paperwork completed for full legal custody, i usually play to her whim, as i really dont want to deal with her and court... she is a lier, manipulator... and works for the state doing stuff with youth. i dont trust her one bit.