| It depends on if the sex or violence is motivated by: greed, anger, or confusion.
Violence is generally bad but saving someone's life by beating up someone who is hurting them might be good (if your motive is to defend not rage).
Sex agitates a lot of people and is an addiction or simply disturbs their minds. But like any powerful feeling sex can be worked with in a skillful way as well. Again it depends what your motivation is. Is it love or are you manipulating or puffing your ego etc.
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