I met her once on that stairs on my first learning jump-in. However, no luck on the second try still (and parallel third one as well). She just does not show up, and i'm not allowed into North district. As i've got it one have to meet here outside first to be accepted in the Bowerstone North. Have i missed something?
Well, seems one has to win Arena to be found worthy... Shame. Even more shame that, as i've just read, one cannot reject Lady Gray's request to hand down the letter if they're married

I'd rather not marry her then
