[Tricky]

Found it. There is a separate value called 'banditattack'. Not jaheirabanditattack or something similar, just banditattack. I doesn't stand out, so I didn't notice it.

It doesn't get created immediately in a new game, so I figured it had to be deleted for the game to ignore it. It worked, and it's like falling in love all over again. Literally.

I hope I can still finish the romance before I finish the game. =/