| For my view, i have an 8 month old son who is great, now i definately don't spank as he is way to young to even start to know what a spank is. but when he gets older and can understand the concept of a spank, i might spank, but ONLY if it is warranted, like if doing something very dangerous to self or others, NEVER in anger and he will know the reason as i will explain why it was that the spank happened, and spank only as a last resort. I hope that the need never comes for me to spank, as what parent wants to spank. For me personally, and generations of both sides of my families, spanking has been used for discipline and it has seemed to work, we grew up respectful, mindful of others, and grew up knowing right from wrong, and none of us felt like we were abused and didnt grow up fearful of our parents. Wether it was the spankings or not, we will never know.
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