Oh my...
there's a hornet's nest...
I think a lot of this relates to how I view gender "differences" in real life. However, I also find I have some trouble reconciling what I like in games with my views on apparent gender differences more generally.
Let me explain. In real life, I believe that the vast majority of gender differences are culturally and socially imposed. Women are
supposed to be smaller, more petite, more delicate, more deft/agile, intuitive etc. And these perceptions and stereotypes are frequently translated to games, with female characters better adapted to spellcasting and stealth. Similarly, male characters are often well suited to fighter types of classes.
Here's where it gets complicated for me. I do feel there are differences between men and women...but these differences are not blatant (or they shouldn't be).. but rather something subtle. And, it are these subtle differences that I like about men when it comes to my personal attractions.
However... I strongly dislike the notion that men and women should be this or that or the other...
Even if you consider something like physical strength, which many people view as a given.. Yes, men are frequently bigger and stronger, but not always. And a woman who is big and strong should not feel out of place just because she does not fit preconceived notions of what it means to be "feminine."
All of that being said... To a point, I like the diversity between gender and racial specifications in games because it makes for variety, especially in games where there are strict rules dictating class abilities.
So, I suppose I'm a bit conflicted on this question... and I think I'm rambling..
(or maybe I just need more coffee
)
btw, great signature! 