[Lasher]

I dont mean to be a jerk, but I think that you have to find out if she can handle it, not what problems you might have. You should really meet her parents (awkward, I know ), because as a teenager she's going to need their support more than yours. I think foregoing sex would be a very good idea until a while after you are both comfortable with the idea.

Hope I didn't come off as an ass hole or anything... good luck!