I don't think anything I say will matter to you, but a lot of other people have been through similar experiences, and you might learn something if you listened to them.
The thing is, you won't have any idea what they're talking about until you reach the same conclusions on your own. Such is life.
You're probably in love. It's a wonderful feeling, and you should enjoy it while it lasts. But it might wear off someday. If that happens, don't be surprised if you become bored, angry, or impatient with the one you love. You've probably seen a lot of unhappy couples, but they were once in love just like you. My, how things change. But that's not the worst thing that could happen. The relationship might come to an end while you're still in love with her, and then you'll have to deal with heartbreak and all of the other associated feelings like anger, jealousy, and helplessness. So the best thing you can do right now is to accept how you feel and hope it makes you a better person. That will make it easier for you to deal with anything life throws your way.
For right now, make the most of it, and above all, respect the woman you love. If she's so important to you, she deserves no less. You don't have to put her ahead of yourself, but treat her well and be considerate of her feelings and desires. Talk to her and try to understand her point of view. If you see her as a real person who has an identity of her own, you'll feel more comfortable at those unavoidable times when you can't understand her and she seems like an alien.
You might think you know her, but there will always be more to learn about her. You need to understand your own feelings and you should not neglect them, but you need to understand her feelings as well.
Good luck!