[Magrus]

*shakes my head* It's kind of sad really. I know I'm more attracted to a persons personality and mind than anything else, so I can understand how that would happen. Yet, I really think the practice of keeping your significant other from seeing you when you are together in person is shady, regardless of the reasonings.

Realistically, no matter how often you talk to a person, you still need to know them beyond talking to really get things to work, at least in my experiences. Body language, and the senses of sight and touch come into play very much so in a relationship. To cut out such things to me is beyond silly in any serious relationship. Honesty, communication and being open with each other is very, very important for a marriage/long-term relationship. Something so simple as a persons gender being kept from me in that kind of situation is a huge thing.

Then again, I find it rather amusing consider my personal beliefs of how everything works. It's quite ironic, two people falling in love, and one's belief system being shocked by the fact that he's fallen for another he, which is something he would never had bothered to explore given that he knew it was a male and not a female.