I used to be VERY touchy-feely, until I ran into instances of reprimands. Still, I do tend to get my share of them from people I know now and then, mostly family, but some friends as well.
I often do feel quite close to a woman. So, restraint notwithstanding, I can be VERY touchy-feely with them. Still, as of these days, I am very cautious of their authorization.
In all, I have a hunch that when a woman decides to become close, it may become quite a surprise.