I hope they make it in the game, smaller things like this really added to the immersion factor in BG2. Also take it a step further like with Aerie and Haer’ Dalis, let your companions have a love affair or something. Maybe they get in a big fight and one leaves.

Some might not like that, but it would feel realistic and add some spice.
I agree, all races and sexes should have the same number of romance options. If there’s two for the males then there should be two for the females and all races should be allowed at those romances.
Gay romances should also be included, as many gay gamers do want this option, instead of being forced into a male/female romance, if they want to pursue a romance. But, the U.S. is pretty conservative when it comes to this, so good luck.