[Ghazghkull]

ok here i come, so if you have SoA and ToB installed then you are totaly doomed just like me, i tried many thing with console but there is too much variable to change so here is the solution for you if you plan to romance jaheira.

uninstall whole game, then install SoA and load your save like some ppl explained already ( you can't do that if you have done watcher's tower )

Or

use this patch from bioware : http://www.bioware.com/games/throne_...pport/patches/

now the romance is fixed but only if you restart a new game, it wont fix the romance in your old save

here is a very good Guide for all romance if anyone care
Romancing Guide