I actually prefer generic or general hints when it comes to gaming. I think a lot of sites are very useful but at the same time, i don't use them unless i'm completely stuck or *cough* lost an item like Sunder which is essential.
Let's say that they are a necessary evil IMHO. I always have a need for them, and I always use them for more than I need.
Tybaltus:
Don't give up helping. I've seen firsthand that memory of yours at work. And new players could always use some experienced gaming advice.
Kam:
I'm in the same boat, I have to solve/explore/find everything! I can't help myself. And I'll definitely be visiting some site walkthroughs just to make sure.