[Jace]

A> Is it better to be leared at manically than not to be leared at at all?

B> Cat love? There is no such thing. When they want a pat, they are just secreting ownership pheromones on you or using you to clean themselves so they don't get hair balls. And Sad? Pathetic Cinderella type (the cat that is, not you Viv. Honest.). If you want Prince Charming, go out and smack him over the head and drag him back to your cave. If you just sit there in your box, you deserve to get packed up and posted where ever.